*having taken her out* There's not you can do about what happened. Not without changing her, or changing your own reality. But what you can do, is be there for her. Replace bad experiences with good ones. Like her cooking, learning a new skill. Bond with her, spend time with her, She thinks every time you leave her the monster comes out, You need to assure her, she's safe. Let her approach men in general, make sure she knows she's in control. She needs to feel like she has a power. Even a superpower, the word NO... She needs to feel that she can decide, she can make things stop, she can make people go away... She needs to feel that regardless of what's going on around her, she has control.
